When Everyone Talks About Love

You will never get a chance to choose to whom you are going to fall in love with. The moment the thought crosses your mind, the idea will definitely haunt you. Some say girls fall in love more quickly than boys. Yes, girls sometimes do, but it is not always the "love" thing, presto! 

We tend to rationalize everything about the guy, most especially when we know that it will not going to be a smooth and easy set up. We think about and process each factor, and the moment we decide, it's sure something not to joke about. Some girls are advanced, they won't mind to tell a guy their discovered feelings. On the other hand, I can say that still, many women would hold back to the full extent of their being. Say it pride, but for me it's more of self-respect. YES. We just don't want to get hurt. But don't get me wrong. WE are not always the VICTIM in this hullabaloo. In fact, women can be more ruthless than men if they want to. I, myself, am guilty of being heartless many times. So with regard to who's hurt and who's bad is a matter of la..la..la.. 

Of course men would prefer that we tell them first our feelings for them. It's obviously their win-win situation, not to mention the saved effort and fetish of pursuing a girl. But then again, women should try their best not to end up that way, no matter how they love a man. Again, it's not actually pride, it's not conservatism neither, it is more on the fact that men should nurture a woman of THEIR OWN. He should go and find his long-lost rib match, to take good care of it, love it, and protect it as his part. In that way the woman is secured that her man would never hurt her, in one aspect or another, simply because she is his treasure found after a long, long search. In return, the woman would maintain for him a warm shelter, ensuring that he would never lose a cheerful soul. Of all the things that matter, it is never a sin to fall in love, if only between self-respect and affection, a woman takes a cautious heart. 



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